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I’m Phil – a specialist in CAM Transformational Coaching™. I help committed wellbeing seekers transform their lifestyle, habits and behaviours by looking at all aspects of their life, health and mindset. 

My approach combines Life Coaching with Hypnotherapy, Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) to get you real results in a short space of time.

I help people worldwide, working with clients both face-to-face and online. My clinic is based in the market town of Hitchin in Hertfordshire - only a 40 min train journey from Kings Cross St.Pancras station and well connected via the A1, M1 and M25 motorways. 


Sessions are conducted in a safe, non-judgemental environment with compassion and understanding. With unrivalled support every step of the way - you are in safe hands. 

Whether you are looking for rapid results or seeking a deeper self-development journey, I offer a range of sessions, packages and programmes tailored to your exact needs. My one-to-one coaching is highly personalised and based on your current situation and life experiences. 'One size fits all' does not apply around here.

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I DON'T BELIEVE IN 'ALL OR NOTHING' APPROACHES OR LIFE GURU NONSENSE

I work with real people and get real results -

just read what my clients have to say


"I’m in such a great place. This is massive progress. I’m genuinely thankful and proud of what we’ve achieved together."

LAWREN, HERTFORDSHIRE

"Phil is great at talking with you rather than preaching at you. I would highly recommend him"

DAN, CAMBRIDGESHIRE

"Phil doesn't judge you in any way, he was just on my level more so than anyone I had spoken to in the past. Easy to chat to and has life experience that you can relate to."

BEN, HERTFORDSHIRE

"Phil is easy to talk to and his enthusiasm for self improvement never waivers."

JAMES, LONDON

"I can't express in words how incredible I think Phil’s coaching skills are with all his knowledge, techniques and above all else his one to one support. Thank you for making such a positive and happier impact on my life!"

HAYLEY, LONDON

"I can confidently say that through working with Phil and the strategies that Come On Coaching employs saw me passing through barriers to achieve a higher level of life satisfaction and calmness. Highly recommended."

MATT, HERTFORDSHIRE

"The hypnotherapy was a game changer for me. Overall I would highly recommend Phil for your hypnotherapy or mindset coaching sessions."

CONNOR, SCOTLAND

Let’s face it - we live in an ever-changing world that presents us with various personal challenges. It can be really hard to hold down a busy job and show up properly for your family and friends whilst still pursuing your personal passions and doing the things you love.


You don’t have to spend endless hours studying personal development or getting lost in the latest fads in order to start transforming your life. I can help you live the life you truly want without it becoming overwhelming or totally time-consuming. 


The hardest thing is getting started. You’ve already taken the first step by choosing to read this. Let’s keep the momentum going.


Why go it alone when I can make this much simpler for you?

Can you relate to any of this?

Life is okay but you have that nagging feeling that things aren’t quite right.

Daily pressures of life are stressing you out.

Worry and anxiety is holding you back.

Drinking too much in order to cope.

Sleep is poor and your lacking in energy.

Bad habits are making you unhappy but you can't stop doing them.

Your self-esteem has taken a hit and you don't feel good enough.

Trapped in a career you no longer enjoy.

Low confidence and self-doubt are stopping you from taking action.

Lost your sense of direction and purpose.

You’ve got the house, the car and the holidays - but you’re still not happy.

Keeping these things a secret from those closest to you.

Stuck in a rut with no motivation - overthinking and procrastinating.

You want to change but keeping ending up back where you started.

If the answer to any of these things is 'YES' then rest assured - you are in exactly the right place.

I understand, I’ve been through most of these things at some point - it can be really draining.

There is a better way.

If you are tired of making excuses, self-sabotage and going round in circles - then stop.

Let me make this easier for you -

I know from first-hand experience that it’s possible to transform your life when you have the right tools, strategies and support.

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Who Do I Help?

I love helping committed individuals from all walks of life who want to change but need some support and fresh ideas.

I thrive off helping determined people who want to take responsibility for their lives and empower themselves.


I don’t work with people who are just looking for more excuses to stay the same and carry on complaining. If you want to keep playing the blame-game, we probably aren’t the right fit.

People come to me for a wide range of issues but the most common things I help with are:

Stress

Anxiety

Burnout prevention

Taking a break from drinking alcohol and/or using drugs

Not feeling good enough

Low self-esteem

Lack of confidence

Establishing healthy habits and daily routines

Depression and low mood

Feeling stuck and frustrated

Performance nerves

Anger management

Panic attacks

Procrastination

Lack of motivation

Feeling lost with no purpose

I am here to help you every step of the way

CONTACT ME TODAY

MY APPROACH COMBINES MINDSET AND LIFE COACHING, HYPNOTHERAPY AND NLP (NEURO LINGUISTIC PROGRAMMING) TO DELIVER A RAPID TRANSFORMATION

You get maximum benefit in a shorter space of time.

What do my clients accomplish?

  • Becoming a better partner, parent friend and family member
  • Taking a break from (and sometimes quitting) drugs, alcohol and other dysfunctional behaviours
  • Smashing those limiting beliefs that have held them back for years
  • Overcoming fears & phobias
  • Loving who they see in the mirror
  • Upgrading that out-of-date software in their head
  • Building new healthy habits
  • Creating a positive future that gets them excited

What benefits can you expect?

  • Reducing stress & anxiety
  • Boosting your confidence
  • Feeling calmer and more in control
  • Creating more harmony between work, family life and personal passions
  • Improving your sleep
  • Enjoying better physical health and mental wellbeing
  • Increasing your energy levels
  • Beating procrastination and self-doubt
  • Expanding your tool kit of things that make you feel better

What do I bring to the table?

  • Daily support
  • Accountability
  • Motivation & momentum
  • Lived experience
  • No BS approach to improving your life
  • Genuine enthusiasm, dedication and the right energy to help you succeed
  • Range of powerful techniques and strategies that help drive rapid change
  • Access to my online community of like-minded people
  • A non-judgemental space where you can talk openly

YOU ARE WORTHY, YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH AND

YES - THERE IS MORE TO LIFE!

You are reading this for a reason. It’s time to take some action

Book your free 30 minute consultation (a friendly, no obligation chat with me)

I will personally guide you through the process and answer your questions

We get started on your life-changing programme

LET'S GET STARTED

WHAT IS YOUR INNER PEACE WORTH?

I’D SAY IT’S PRICELESS

Working with me is simple - I offer a range of single sessions, packages and longer-term programmes. Some issues can be addressed in one session. Other things take more time to unpack.

Once we have discussed your needs, I will make a professional recommendation based on your desired outcome(s). You can then choose what is right for you.

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The Ripple Effect

You might come to me because you’re feeling stressed, frustrated and drinking too much. Within a few sessions you’re much calmer and life is improving. Fast-forward a few months - you’ve taken a break from alcohol, you are back in the gym, your confidence is through the roof, your kids love seeing you everyday and your partner is so proud of you for making these changes……….

THAT’S WHAT WE CALL THE RIPPLE EFFECT

WHAT PRICE WOULD YOU PUT ON THAT?

What My Clients Say

(in more detail)

"Working with Phil has been easy and his down to earth nature really allows you to be honest with yourself and set about making a plan. His mantra sets out simple everyday techniques that have allowed me to work on myself in a way that I didn’t think was possible.

I’ve battled with drink and drugs for many years and as a direct result of our work I haven’t done either since starting our journey and I’m in such a great place. This is massive progress. I’m genuinely thankful and proud of what we’ve achieved together."

LAWREN, HERTFORDSHIRE

"Phil is great at talking with you rather than preaching at you. He is great at guiding your thoughts until you reach an outcome yourself and then supporting that with ways to help achieve or sustain the outcomes. I am now less stressed and make sure that I have time to focus on the things I love - family and music. I would highly recommend working with Phil."

DAN, CAMBRIDGESHIRE

"I've tried CBT and other stuff in the past and it's never really been that helpful. With Phil it felt totally different. Small steps introduced at the right times, that didn't actually feel like I was having to make any real big changes to my life. Phil doesn't judge you in any way. Plus, for me being a middle aged guy, he was just on my level more so than anyone I had spoken to in the past. Easy to chat to and has life experience that you can relate to. Quite simply, I am now a better father and husband."

BEN, HERTFORDSHIRE

"I was unaware of why my battery was being drained and how I could rebalance my energy. I’ve seen improvements in my focus and resilience. I now have the capacity to be more productive. Phil is easy to talk to and his enthusiasm for self improvement never waivers."

JAMES, LONDON

"I can't express in words how incredible I think Phil’s coaching skills are with all his knowledge, techniques and above all else his one to one support. I can honestly say I was at my worst moment when I first started working with Phil and that I don't know where I'd be now! Those are powerful words and meant with all my heart. Phil once again thank you for making such a positive and happier impact on my life!"

HAYLEY, LONDON

"Phil brings an infectious energy and effervescence to coaching sessions. After signing up for a six week programme we explored each element of my daily routine that I felt could be improved, and worked towards making small changes that had big effects. That was four months ago and I can confidently say that through working with Phil and the strategies that Come On Coaching employs saw me passing through barriers to achieve a higher level of life satisfaction and calmness. Highly recommended."

MATT, HERTFORDSHIRE

"The hypnotherapy was a game changer for me. After feeling anxious before a gig for a couple of weeks, mixed with the stress of life, I needed something to help me focus and maintain a clear mentality. I felt like I was physically in the club performing, and got a glimpse of what it would be like to be totally present and anxiety free. Overall I would highly recommend Phil for your hypnotherapy or mindset coaching sessions."

CONNOR, SCOTLAND

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I help people worldwide, working with clients both face-to-face and online. My clinic is based in the market town of Hitchin in Hertfordshire - only a 40 min train journey from Kings Cross Saint Pancras station and well connected via the A1, M1 and M25 motorways. 

Please note - all prices shown are based around online coaching sessions conducted via Zoom. In-person sessions may be subject to additional fees - ask for more information.

I am a qualified Transformational Coaching Specialist and Master Practitioner in Life Coaching, Clinical Hypnosis and Neuro Linguistic Programming. I help with issues that relate to stress, anxiety, low mood, depression, confidence, performance nerves, phobias, relationships, lack of purpose and fulfilment, destructive behaviours and habits.

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